Let Your Soul Sparkle
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Sparkle Every Day: If You Do Not Make Moves The Universe Will Move You
Ever felt stuck, unsure which way to go, and held onto what's familiar, even when it's time to move on? I'll share a personal story about my own divorce journey and the fear of what lay ahead. There's a moment when a rent hike pushed me to rethink everything. It felt like a sign from the universe nudging me to let go of what wasn't right anymore.
It wasn't easy, but going through that turmoil taught me so much. Trusting the unknown is tough, but believing that things work out is key. Join me on this journey of finding strength in letting go and embracing change. It's a story about resilience and discovering oneself.
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What's up? Sparkle Squad? Welcome to Sparkle Every Day. Well, I decided to just instantly record part two from yesterday because I had a story that goes along with something in relation to letting go of things that are no longer vibing with you, but I didn't want yesterday's episode to get too long. This is kind of a personal story and I just wanted to, you know, share it because I feel like it's always a good example to share personal stories, even though sometimes it's hard for me, it's very vulnerable, but I know that I'm not alone in these things and I want to share them.
Speaker 1:So when I was going through my divorce many years ago, there was a lot of like, back and forth and like what are we gonna do? And, you know, I feel like he was not always very forthcoming with the fact that he was done. There was a lot of like lingering around and making me wait to see what he was deciding, which, looking back, I so badly wish I would have just grabbed my power and been like I want someone who fully chooses me and isn't unsure, you know, and he was done, but he wanted me to make all the. All the calls was what it came down to so that he would look like the better person right, or look like not a bad guy. So I was not in my my power or my higher self enough to do that in the moment. And I remember I was really hanging on and I was just, like you know, trying and grasping at straws. And I will never forget we had an apartment. It was a really, really nice apartment in downtown Willow Glen where actually live now in an amazing place. So Funny Having Universe brought me back to where I wanted to be, in a way better capacity that I never would have expected.
Speaker 1:But at the time I didn't want to leave this apartment. I loved it and I was like, oh my gosh, like I could never afford this place on my own. It was pretty pricey and like obviously it's a long time ago, so my financial situation was different and I just couldn't afford to stay there on my own. And I remember being like are we gonna stay here and keep working on things? Are we gonna like move apart? Are we gonna divorce? Like I really didn't know what was gonna happen and I knew our lease was about to be up. Our lease was gonna be up in I believe it was the end of August, september and this was July and I was literally headed out the door to go to my really good friend's big birthday party. She was turning 50 and my best friend, erica, had just arrived to pick me up. I was all dressed up and when I went to go get her at the front door there was a letter like at the front door, and I remember opening it up and it basically said like your lease agreements about to be up, these are the prices for the new lease and you know, please come down to the front desk whenever you have time to Resign your lease and whatever.
Speaker 1:And when I opened it up, you guys I'm not even kidding you it was the biggest jump in rent like ever. Like to where, like I knew the two of us like couldn't afford this plus All of our other bills. Like even if we weren't gonna divorce you know what I mean. Like it was like, woe dude, there's no way we could afford this. Like I mean it's been a lot of years so I can't remember exactly now, but I want to say it was like going from 2,400 or 2,500 to like 33 or something like that. It was a huge jump. And you know, people like what about rent control, I don't know, dude Bay Area, like I'm not sure it was like the terms of the lease.
Speaker 1:Honestly, too, if anyone's been through a horrible time like that in their lives, you'll you'll know that, like you kind of black stuff out and actually forget things like I don't know. I just remember it was over 3,000 by quite a bit and me being like what the fuck? Like we could have a house for this and this is a freaking apartment. So I Just instantly have the most sinking feeling because I knew that this was gonna be like all he needed to be, like yeah, we can't live here together, like we should just go our separate ways. Like I knew it was gonna be like that, like little out that he was looking for, and I knew that it was gonna be like something that I couldn't, I couldn't work on, like I couldn't do anything to fix this Right. Like everything else, I've been like grasping at straws, but this is out of my control.
Speaker 1:And I went to a party. I had the most awful night because I just couldn't let it go. I just was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe this, whatever. And then, you know, maybe like a couple weeks later or the week later, I was sitting at my friend, kim's house, in her backyard, and we were just talking about everything and I was like you know what the universe is literally doing for me, what I'm unwilling to do? Like it just clicked. I mean, I want to say I thought of it, or maybe she said it again.
Speaker 1:It's all a blur, but Yesterday I'm sitting here talking to you guys about when things no longer vibrate at your frequency, letting them go and trusting life. I was not doing that. I was actually holding so tightly on to something that was no longer serving me because of the fear of what it was gonna be like to go through the process of this Undoing, you know, and what my life was gonna look like and what was it gonna, you know, be like for me or for us, or you know, this is not what I planned on by any means, you know. And the universe was like you know what like I'm gonna do for you, what you're not gonna do for yourself right now, because things are gonna be so much better in the rearview mirror and you know it took a long time for me to really like understand all of that, but I do remember seeing that little glimmer of hope, like a week or two weeks after, whatever it was being like yeah, the universe is literally forcing me to do this.
Speaker 1:And you guys, oftentimes, once the universe comes in and forces you to do something, just because it's happening doesn't mean it's easy. It's not like I was like oh my gosh, let me pack my bags. The universe has talked to me and said it's time for me to go, like let me skip out the door. Like it was not like that, like I knew what was happening and I knew the universe had a bigger plan. But I was fucking sad, I was fucking mad, I was hurt, I was sick to my stomach, you know. But I knew why. I knew why I was like this is because I'm not doing it and the universe is like girl, I'm gonna pick you up and I'm gonna move you for you, right?
Speaker 1:So you don't want it to come to that like. You don't want to be in a situation where you feel like You're powerless. You want to always do things from a place of your personal power and making choices for your higher self. But if you choose not to, it doesn't mean it's not gonna happen. It just means it's gonna happen in a way that you didn't choose.
Speaker 1:So this is my message to all of you that the universe will always have your back, always. So just trust that when things happen, they are for your higher good. But if we can intervene and do what our gut tells us and make moves when our gut tells us we will like shorten that process right, we'll make things easier on us. And so Yesterday, when I'm saying, let go of things that have a lower vibe and trust that if it's meant for you, it'll be for you, that is the message. But today is the message of the warning that if you don't do that, there will be a time when it will still happen, and it will happen in a way that's out of your control. But you have to just trust that it's happening for a bigger purpose, all right, so wow, felt kind of good to get off my chest. Anyways, I hope you guys have a great rest of your day and I will talk to you soon. Bye.